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Advice for ‘The Runner’

If you’ve read about the runner and have realized that its you, here is some advice…

Stop Running
The first thing that you need to do, really, is to stop running. Trying to escape the situation only stretches this painful and confusing phase (confusing for you and painful for your twinflame).
If you just try to understand whats going really on and cooperate with your partner, it will make it much easier for him/her and for you too. Read the rest of this entry


The Runner and the Chaser

The Runner and the Chaser are the roles that twinflames take after the previous part of this phase of the relationship .

The Arguments and Fights cause a lot of confusion between twinflames as they are usually not spiritually enlightened and don’t consciously know what is happening.
These arguments, in reality, have a deep meaning and benefit both partners… As explained “”

But now the conscious mind doesn’t understand all this… and so, The running and the chasing begins…

One of the Twinflames, usually the man, becomes ‘The Runner’.

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Phases of a Twinflame Relationship

A Twinflame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning (usually a few years)

After reading or hearing about twinflames and their perfectly balanced energies, many people think it would be like a fairytale,
the you-find-your-twinflame-and-live-happily-ever-after kind of thing.

It is not.

It is a perfect relationship, but it needs some work from both the partners.

After having been separated from each other literally millions of years ago, both twinflames(of all souls) went through a lot of pain and suffering… and gathered negative emotions in the process.
These take a while to get sorted. And this can be difficult at times.
But you’ll get through it…
Love will take you there…
And then the world is your canvas and you’re the painters…
Together, in love, harmony, in Eternal Bliss

There are, as I see It, Five main phases of a twinflame relationship.
Everyone understands the twinflame relationship differently… and there are no clear timelines or specific periods for any of these phases.
Each differes for every twinflame couple.
I’m giving you this information so that you can understand this relationship better.
There are no rules. And there is no One-size-fits-all in a Twinflame relationship.
Each relationship will be unique, just like each couple.

Having said that,
Here are the Four main phases that usually resonate with all twinflames in some way.

Phase One – The Preparation
This phase comes BEFORE you meet your twinflame.
But I’m counting it as one of the phases as It is very much a part of your Twinflame relationship. Read the rest of this entry